digital leash laws...

So after nearly 14 months of marriage, I am learning that expectations and disappointments are huge speed bumps in a relationship. We both want the other to be what we want them to be to us, but I am learning that no matter what oneself wants oneself cannot change the other. One can only effect oneself, although one can have affect on another.

It's hard, I still don't understand the mechanics of it all, but I'm working on it.

Please give me grace and forgiveness as I try.